2. We don't do a good enough job of shepherding our kids. If there's one class of person that the Bible talks about a lot, it's the shepherd. One of these days maybe I'll get around to calculating exactly how many major players in the Bible were shepherds of some sort. For the sake of my argument, though, we're going to look at the most important shepherd that we can draw from, and that is Christ himself. The one which we as individuals, and churches, are commanded to model ourselves after.
Looking at shepherds, even now, there are two primary goals, or job requirements, or your typical shepherd.
- Shepherds lead and guide there sheep. Sheep really are quite stupid animals, and left to their own devices, will most likely get themselves into trouble. It's up to the shepherd to guide them into safe territory, where they can be cared for, be comfortable, and be given the sustenance and rest that they need. They won't naturally find it for themselves (what's best for them) and they need help to get there. Job #1 of the shepherd, which if you haven't figured out already, is point #1 of my blog here. Lead and guide so the sheep (our children) know where to go. And by the way, just so it's out there, we as adults need to be led, too. We do some pretty stupid things ourselves.
- The second job requirement of the shepherd (and this is the really big one in my mind, and the thrust of my second point -- the one that we really seem to fall woefully unprepared for) is in the protection of his sheep. You see, a lot of times it isn't enough to simply lead and guide the sheep, because like I said, they're really pretty dumb creatures, and almost assuredly if you are shepherding them one of two things will happen: either a wolf will wander in among the flock and try to snatch them and take them away, or, the sheep will wander astray of the main herd and right into the wolf's mouth.
Children are, of course, a fantastic example of all of this. And hopefully, if you've read with me this far, you will understand, or at least agree, that as Christians that is exactly what we are, God's children and there are definite similarities between the two (it's no accident). Like it or not, the attitude we exhibit with God is oftentimes, I would have to believe, just as frustrating as the one our children give to us (for those of us who are parents), but I digress.
As the father of 3 little boys myself, I do my utmost to attempt to lead and guide them in the best way that I know how.
You see, the world is a wolf. Or if you want to get all biblical about it, a Lion. Looking to devour. The Bible tells us that Satan is like a lion, on the prowl, looking for people to devour. Have you ever seen a lion devour, or prowl and attack something? It ain't pretty. And what the world, or Satan, wants to do to us, and our kids, ain't pretty, either! He wants us dead, plain and simple.
The fact of the matter is that within a church, I would venture to say, we are to a large part protected. The first part of the "protection" process is somewhat taken care of because we are placing ourselves in a protected environment. Very few wolves are going to be able to come into a church and begin to pick apart the flock, because at least in church we're "close to God" and can spot them easily. It's much easier for the wolves to just wait and watch, because the way we are set up, there's no way that as Christians we are not going to have to go out into the world. The wolves are smart. They're not going to come into our territory where they can see we are protected -- they're going to wait until we come into their territory and then they are going to attack. And there's no way to avoid going into their territory, unfortunately.
As churches, and as youth leaders, are we paying attention to the warning signs around us? Are we watching our kids well enough to notice when they're in trouble? Are we watching them well enough to notice when they begin to "sneak off"? And Heaven help us, when we notice they are in trouble, what are we doing about it? Are we tracking them down to beat off the wolves and bring them back?
You see, when my son ran off it wasn't enough for me as his protector to simply say, "Well, I told him right from wrong. I taught him his lessons, and he made the mistake. He'll have to deal with the consequences." No! I had to get off my duff and run him down before the wolves could get to him. It took action on my part! And I have to ask what actions we as churches are taking to protect? Are we teaching, or leading and guiding, and leaving a person to their own designs? "Make them deal with their consequences!" Is it even our job to go after them? Do we only protect them in house, or are we wiling to be true shepherds, and go after them when the world has sunk its teeth into them?
While many may disagree, I think we do have to go after them. And I think that as a church, we don't as often as we need to. And I think we have a wonderful example of that in the Bible. You see, as a people, we've spent literally thousands of years trying to flee the Shepherd. In spite of all of His attempts to lead and guide us in the right direction, for what ever reason, we do all that we can to escape His protection and go our own way (see the Bible, beginning in Genesis). And when we, as His people, had gotten so far away from Him that we couldn't protect ourselves anymore, and the wolves were closing in looking to destroy us forever, that He got up off of His Seat, and came to where we were, and snatched us away from the wolves and gave us the opportunity to come back with Him. God would have been well within His rights to leave us to the wolves, but as our parent, and someone who loved us as much as He did, He didn't. He opted to protect us. And it didn't involve just waiting for us to wander back to Him. He came to us. If you want to get perfectly frank about it, He came down and wandered into the wolves' den Himself, and said, "Let my sheep go, and take me instead." And that's exactly what happened... God chose to act to protect us.
So again, it begs the question. What are we as churches, as shepherds in our communities and the world around us,
Maybe next time, I'll go after my own throat a bit...
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